Choosing the right pediatric therapist for your child is a significant and personal decision that can greatly impact your child’s development and well-being. Whether your child requires occupational therapy, speech therapy, or any other form of therapeutic support, finding the ideal therapist match can take time and multiple consultations with different providers. It is important to keep in mind that finding the right therapist can be similar to dating - the therapist may be a great person and good at their job and yet they still might not be the best match for your child/family. In this blog post, we'll explore important factors to keep in mind in order to help you make an informed choice for your child's unique needs.
Does the Therapist Listen to Your Concerns?
One of the first signs of a great therapist is their ability to listen to, and have genuine interest in. your concerns. You can begin to gauge this by having a short consult (either in person or on the phone) prior to the initial evaluation. Typically there is extensive dialogue during the initial evaluation, when your child will first be formally working with the therapist. Consider if the therapist is attempting to understand your concerns and from where they are rooted rather than excessively suggesting - or even imposing - their own goals and milestones. Occasionally, therapists can get “stuck” on what they think a child “should” be doing rather than focusing on the reason families are seeking therapy. For example, you might come into an occupational therapy (OT) evaluation for difficulty managing emotions/behavior and the therapist focuses on fine motor and handwriting differences. During your initial meetings, consider whether the therapist takes the time to understand your child's barriers, your family's goals, and your specific worries. A therapist who listens openly and attentively can tailor their approach to address your child's individual needs effectively.
Does the Therapist Try to Build a Genuine Relationship with Your Child?
Building a genuine and trusting relationship with your child is essential for successful therapy. Watch for signs that the therapist is skilled at connecting with your child on a personal level. They should create a safe and supportive environment where your child feels comfortable and valued, fostering a positive therapeutic relationship. It is important to keep in mind that your child is most likely going to be addressing difficult and even sensitive issues while in therapy. In order for them to get the most out of therapy, they must feel safe enough to do so. If a child never builds a relationship with their therapist, they will not be getting the maximum therapeutic benefit that they deserve.
Does Your Therapist Feel Comfortable Being Questioned or Receiving Feedback?
Effective communication between you, your child, and the therapist is vital. A therapist who welcomes questions, feedback, and collaboration is more likely to provide personalized and effective care. Don't hesitate to voice your concerns or ask for clarification during the therapy process. If you find the therapist is uncomfortable when being asked to clarify or even justify their explanations/therapeutic approaches, that is concerning. No one person knows everything, no matter the profession. Therapists best serve their patients when they come from a place of wanting to learn and understand regardless of how long they have been practicing.
Does the Therapist Use Individualized Treatment Activities/Strategies?
Every child is unique, and their therapy should reflect their individual needs. A skilled therapist customizes treatment activities and strategies to address your child's specific challenges and goals. Look for a therapist who tailors their approach to your child’s strengths and interests while working on their barriers to success.
Does the Therapist Give You "Homework"?
Supporting your child's progress outside of therapy sessions is crucial for long-term success. A therapist who assigns "homework" or suggests activities for you to practice with your child at home is invested in their progress and understands the importance of caregiver buy-in and consistency for generalization of skills. This approach empowers you to contribute to your child's development actively.
Does the Therapist Make You and Your Child Feel Valued?
Last but not least, a great therapist should make both you and your child feel valued and respected. They should demonstrate empathy, patience, and a genuine commitment to your child's well-being. A therapist who acknowledges your efforts as a parent and the strengths of your child creates a positive and empowering therapeutic experience.
Choosing the right therapist for your child involves careful consideration of these key factors. The ideal therapist will listen to your concerns, establish a genuine rapport with your child, encourage questions and feedback, tailor treatment strategies, provide opportunities for at-home practice, and, most importantly, make you and your child feel valued and supported throughout the therapeutic journey. By prioritizing these aspects, you can ensure that your child receives the high-quality care they deserve.
